A message to every single teenager out there!

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

There are many things that pressure you when you're in high school...

there's grades, projects, school works, grades, activities, being late, grades, your teachers, and yeah... did i mention grades?

well anyway, there is something which is a bit bigger than those things I mentioned, something only teenagers really care for...

it's having a relationship with the opposite sex... or having a love-life.

I wouldn't understand having one, I'm still single.

sometimes i get jealous when i see my friends with their bf/gf doing cute stuff with each other. it kinda irritates me.

sometimes i think "will i ever get a girlfriend??" or "am i THAT unattractive?!"

i tried being optimistic about it.

i thought "Hey, you're still 15 years old. don't beat yourself up because you don't have a gf."

ever since our retreat I've learned to love myself first before trying to love other people. if i couldn't love myself right, how can i love other people right?

right?

I am often asked for advice about other people's love lives. They tell me I give good advice.

I find it kinda weird though. how can someone, who doesn't have a clue what happens in a relationship, give good advice?


anyway, for people like US, (I'm talking to everyone there who doesn't have a relationship and is desperate to find one) don't fret, someone will come into your life and make you happy. don't look for it, don't rush it...

Me?

i'm not rushing love... people tell me not to look for love but rather wait for it.

So I followed their advice and they're right.

why not try to love yourself first before you try to love someone else?